Are you sick of feeling unheard by your child’s doctor?
The one person you turn to with the most pressing questions about your child’s health, and they simply tell you to sweep your child’s tic under the rug You may have heard every piece of advice regarding tics, read every article, listened to every podcast, and tried every therapy, medication, or diet.
Sometimes you feel like you can barely keep your head above water. I’ll show you how my clients step away from feeling crazy about their child’s tics to FINALLY feeling heard, supported, and understood.
As a parent of a child with a tic disorder, you’re probably feeling lost, scared, and overwhelmed. Trust me, I’ve been there. Let’s talk about why getting support is crucial for both you and your child.
The Stress Domino Effect
Here’s something you might not realize: your stress is contagious. When you’re freaking out, your kid picks up on it. And let’s face it, they’re already dealing with enough stress from their tics. It’s like adding fuel to a fire that’s already burning pretty hot.
Think about it. When everyone in the house is on edge – mom, dad, grandma, grandpa – it creates this tense atmosphere. Your child, who’s already in fight-or-flight mode because of their tics, feels it even more intensely.
The Grief No One Talks About
Did you know that about half of parents whose kids get diagnosed with a chronic illness (yep, tic disorders count) go through a grieving process? It’s true. We feel lost, wondering what we did wrong. The mom guilt hits hard.
We grieve for the “what ifs”:
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What if we can’t help our child?
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What if we can’t get them back on track?
It’s heavy stuff, and it’s not something you can just shake off.
Why You Need Someone Who’s Been There
Having someone in your corner who’s walked in your shoes? It’s a game-changer. Here’s why:
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They get it. When you’re having a rough day (like when your kid has a massive angry outburst), they understand.
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They have real solutions. Not just theories, but stuff that’s actually worked.
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They can help you chill out. Remember, your stress affects your kid. When you’re calmer, they’re calmer.
The Problem with the “Just Another Doctor” Approach
Look, I’m not knocking doctors. We need them. But here’s the thing: most doctors aren’t trained to deal with chronic conditions like tic disorders. They’re great at fixing broken arms or treating infections, but long-term stuff? Not so much. Plus, your average doctor visit is like a drive-thru. Seven minutes, in and out. That’s not enough time to really dig into what’s going on with your kid.
The Medication Merry-Go-Round
Here’s something they don’t tell you about meds for tic disorders:
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Most are prescribed “off-label” (meaning they weren’t originally designed for tics).
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They rarely reduce symptoms by more than 50%.
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Some studies show they might only help by about 30%.
So you might be thinking you’re getting a magic cure, but really, you’re just masking symptoms. And then you end up trying med after med, hoping for better results.
A Different Approach: Looking at the Whole Picture
After conventional medicine failed my son, I went back to school. I studied everything from holistic nutrition to natural medicine. Why? Because I wanted to understand how the whole body works together.
This approach helped my son get to a place where he’s basically symptom-free. And it wasn’t just tics we dealt with. He had:
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Cyclical vomiting
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Focus issues
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Sensory processing problems
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Food allergies
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Mood swings
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Dysgraphia
The Roadmap You’ve Been Looking For
Over the past 10 years, I’ve created a roadmap to help reduce tic disorder symptoms naturally. Here’s what it involves:
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Comprehensive analysis: We look at 935 different biomarkers to see what’s really going on in your child’s body.
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Connecting the dots: We take all that info and your child’s health history to create a full picture.
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Personalized strategy: We create short-term and long-term goals specifically for your child.
Why Support Matters (For You and Your Kid)
Having support isn’t just about feeling better (though that’s important) – it includes:
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Getting real, practical help
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Reducing your stress (which helps your child)
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Having someone to guide you through the process
And don’t forget – your kid needs support too. We even have youth advocates who can talk to your child about their experiences.
Wrapping It Up
If you’re feeling stuck in the conventional medicine box, it might be time to step out. There are natural solutions out there, but you need the right guide to find them. You’re not alone in this, there’s support available, and it can make a world of difference for both you and your child.
